thehealingone

I feel for you. I'm currently at my divorce journey. So many things in your post touched me on a personal level. I can relate. My husband moved out little over a week ago. When he did I felt like it would be temporary. Not feeling that so much anymore. I was told he felt happier living with his parents and not coming home every day. He also has a girlfriend in another state.

You saying that your self worth over time becomes tied to someone else is true. Thats happened to me without me realizing it. And it sucks. There is no way that you did not have an impact in her life. She may not realize it now but she will see it in the future. You just might not see her see it if you know what I mean. Im sure there are great things coming for you!

Just know that you are not alone