To the OP - your husband's belief that woman just know how to nurture is wrong. I've known woman who sucked at nurturing while knowing men who are excellent at it. You said he told you he feels you do not comfort him the way he wants. How about asking what he needs from you to be comforted?
As for cooking, personally, I think the way you are handling it now makes sense. Have the two of you discussed how else you could handle it?
To those who mentioned the husband is home all day. The OP said he is working from home. As someone who worked from home most of my life and am back to it because of Covid, just because a person it at home does not mean they have more time for household chores. That person is still working 8 hours a day.
To ContinuouslyBlue - I'm scratching my head over why you think this has anything with their sex life! As for women being less feminine because they work, what an insulting, sexist comment!
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