Hi there,

Well my last therapist didn’t diagnose personality disorders. I had told her that my psychiatrist had diagnosed as BPD, and that he told me, I can in with that diagnosis.

Anyway, my oldest brother, was engaged over 10+ years ago now. And his wife was nice and kind. Anyway, when he told me he was getting married to her I freaked out. I was sobbing uncontrollably and couldn’t control myself, and kept saying things like “she’s stealing you away from me” and “I don’t want to lose you” like I felt like I was being pushed to the side and going to be left alone.

My other brother was engaged years ago and I had the same reaction. I wasn’t happy about it at all and devastated “feeling like I am losing my brother”.
Is this considered to be BPD?