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I think you need to read between the lines. How is your sex life ? He probably is not coming out with his needs directly. A lot of woman today have lost their "femininity", especially if they work outside the home. He doesn't need a "mother" , he probably is just looking for more "sexual affection" from his wife. Just a thought.
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I am baffled by this post.
Why should the OP read between the lines? If her husband needs 'sexual affection' he is adult enough to speak his needs, no? I mean, he is critical of everything else. Why make assumptions as to what he meant or what he want(s)?
If he wanted sexual affection he would not complain about the OP not being "nurturing". He seems to want his needs met and his wife is not there to satisfy these needs. This is not adult, mature, behaviour.
I won't comment on the narrow-minded view of women not being feminine when/if they work. I don't subscribe to the neanderthal notion that women ought to be 'barefoot and pregnant' and cater to their male counterparts' needs.