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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Julie, I have been thinking about this situation and I question how your husband could even think after just telling you the extent of this affair that it was ok to even ask you if you wanted him to move back home. And he said he doesn't need therapy but is ok if you need it? He doesn't have any remorse for what he did?
Did he say anything in your conversations that expressed remorse? From what you have shared it doesn't sound like he has, did I miss something?
Does he even understand love? How his actions can hurt others?
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Okay. Today he apologised for everything he's done. It did seem sincere, but I just don't want to hear it. Not Now or maybe ever.
This is what I mean that he didn't think it through. He told me to ask any and all questions about whatever and he would be honest. So I did. He did say that he felt he had to be honest about the affair if we were to have any kind of future. Said if we got back together and then I found out that would be really bad.
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He claims to still love me and still IN love with me..Said today she just made him feel good and young. I don't know what the hell he's thinking.
This is what I mean when I say I don't think he truly knows what he wants. You have to remember. I called him out on his behavior, he didn't come to me. I think he had no intention of telling me any time soon because yes its been 8 month, but she lives at least 9 hours away. They haven't spent much time together in the scheme of things. Enough for me but not enough to really get to know each other, quirks and all. No major alone time. So i think he was just riding this all out and then the guilt got to him. But what do I know
I once again gave him the cmon pull the trigger lets end this , but he wouldn't do it.