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Originally Posted by Julielynn1990
I don't know if I can get past it. I have my first therapy appointment this week. Im leaning heavily to leaving. I'm just not there yet. I need to get some things in order. I already have an attorney in mind. I guess I want him to have the balls to pull the trigger. I'm just scared out of my mind. I want to be able to get my credit card, that's in my name only paid down before I do anything. Its just hard ya know Ive been with this person for more than half my life. Theres just a very very small part of me holding me back. Im hoping therapy will help me work that out
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Therapy should help. To me, it’s a matter of self respect and broken trust. But that’s how I view cheating. If I caught my husband doing something like that it would be over with no conversation. I agree with divine. Take back your power and be the one to file for divorce. Why let him end things and hurt you more?? He’s already moved out and is uncertain. If he truly loved you he wouldn’t have cheated. Hold your head high and show yourself some self respect. If you accept the affair, you’re accepting disrespect and total disregard.