Ok, so this is the back story: We are 2 married woman over 55. We met in a volunteer situation. I found out her husband was in the hospital while she was sick. I called to offer my support. What should have been a 2 hour phone call turned into a 3 month friendship, she is bossy and takes about 12 hours a day of my time. I am thinking of ending my friendship with her and wrote the following letter: