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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Therapy should help. To me, it’s a matter of self respect and broken trust. But that’s how I view cheating. If I caught my husband doing something like that it would be over with no conversation. I agree with divine. Take back your power and be the one to file for divorce. Why let him end things and hurt you more?? He’s already moved out and is uncertain. If he truly loved you he wouldn’t have cheated. Hold your head high and show yourself some self respect. If you accept the affair, you’re accepting disrespect and total disregard.
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Julielynn1990, what I mean by this is that any decent man would have confronted the issues with you before deciding to cheat. Instead, your husband was a coward and weak and carried on an affair, which shows disrespect and disregard for both YOU and the marriage.
If my husband had an affair for 8 months, there is (1) no way I would ever trust him again and (2) no way that I would be able to maintain any sense of self respect if I chose to remain with him.
You deserved far better than how he treated you, which is my main point. You deserved honesty and fairness, not cheating, dishonoring, lies and deception. This man is
not worthy.