I do - that's why I plan on not using ANY blame toward him when I announce a divorce. I am not going to blame, accuse, finger point or criticize him in any way.

And I will inform him that nothing between us, any of our personal issues, will be shared with anyone. And that I would appreciate the same. What he chooses to do after that, is HIS choice.

My closest friends and confidantes all know the truth about him anyways. My extended shared circle? They're not friends, but are just acquaintances.

I have to be strong and do this for my well being, regardless of any repercussions and costs to myself.