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Hi lady2b, I hear you. Without hesitation, I encourage you completely. Leave. Plan carefully, communicate clearly, fear nothing, and follow your heart. You deserve to be happy, and at 51, two kids and all those years later, anyone who says you didn't try is wrong.

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Sqrlb8 - I needed to hear that! I loved what you said and copied it down in my journal.... plan carefully, communicate clearly, fear nothing, and follow your heart. That will be my new mantra.

Ozzie and kimmydawn - I just love you two to pieces! Your wisdom and compassion are evident in every post you two write.

Wants 2 Fly - I am so sorry that you were hurt so badly. ((((hugs if you want them!)))) You deserve so much more!

I just found out that husband called my T and complained to him that he wasn't helping me and if he couldn't help me, to find someone that could! I was so embarressed that he would do that. I asked him if he would be willing to go to a session with me and his remark was, "No....I'm not the one with a problem, you are." I also told him that I was unhappy and thought maybe this would be a good way to open those lines of communication, and his only response was, "I suppose you are going to blame that on me too". That made me sad to think that he must not care enough to want to know what is making me unhappy... darn, it sounds like I'm whining again....sorry!