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Old Nov 03, 2020, 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by NP_Complete View Post
I don't feel like saying something to acknowledge that he's going through a difficult time is necessarily taking care of him. It feels more like a human compulsion to say "hey, I see you and I'm sorry you're having a rough time". But then I'm torn because am I overstepping boundaries by acknowledging this? I feel like kind of an asshole for not recognizing that he's also a human being and telling him that I feel compassion about his situation, because that is how I actually feel.

I think it's okay to be a human being sitting in a room with another human being offering kindness...even if they happen to be a therapist.

(And if you don't feel like saying something, you're not an asshole either.)
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