This is something I learned from the days events. If you are a minor and don't want your family to find out about the abuse, don't tell anyone. Not an adult or therapist. They are required to contact CPS, and they will not be discrete. My Mom and Dad now know about the sexual abuse. Everything is out of wack. If you want to keep it a secret, once again DO NOT TELL A THERAPIST OR ADULT!!! If you are not a minor, I think they handle the situation differently.