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Default Nov 05, 2020 at 04:28 PM
 
I think it’s healthy to not need anybody but rather enjoy good company and partnership when you do have it.

Nothing good comes out of “needing” a partner: either in order to feel secure or in order for someone pay your bills or in order to fit into preconceived notion of people needing a relationship etc These relationships based on “need” are never ever healthy. So not needing someone is perfectly fine,

having said that, it’s also very human to want a companionship and enjoy what good partnership can bring into your life. Certain things could be more fun and more enjoyable with a partner etc Also raising kids with a good partner is good. Emphasis is on good partner and good relationship.

Too many people are in miserable relationships because they need to depend on someone or someone told them that’s how things need to be. So don’t worry that you must be in a relationship. No such thing
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