That's a horrible therapist right there for you - my word - telling you that you were playing victim?!?! That's victim blaming! How awful!!!! That can do soo much damage to someone who HAS been a victim of abuse!!!



And thanks so much - I just had probably the best therapy session I've ever had. This guy is well trained... very well trained. I can tell he is going to truly be able to help me. I am SO thankful because I've never had an effective therapist - not one - and I've been in and out of therapy my whole life.