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Old Nov 05, 2020, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
That's a horrible therapist right there for you - my word - telling you that you were playing victim?!?! That's victim blaming! How awful!!!! That can do soo much damage to someone who HAS been a victim of abuse!!!



And thanks so much - I just had probably the best therapy session I've ever had. This guy is well trained... very well trained. I can tell he is going to truly be able to help me. I am SO thankful because I've never had an effective therapist - not one - and I've been in and out of therapy my whole life.
I also think that any therapist who accuses someone who has experienced, or is experiencing, Narcissistic abuse of ''playing the victim'' is a horrible and useless therapist. Grrrrrrr

I'm so happy for you that you have found an effective therapist (after years of sub optimal therapists)
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