80 yr old boyfriend sits in his power recliner and plays with himself all day long.

He fell and broke his femur and hip, was in a nursing and rehab care center for two months. He's been home for about 2 weeks.

He won't help himself. He won't exercise. Sometimes he tells me that he just wants to die.

Now, he has resorted to masturbating all day long.

What can I do? I am totally at a loss.

How do I motivate him, to participate in life?
How do I motivate him to exercise?

I don't want to be in this position, with him. It's not right!