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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
Actually, chihiro, I think your therapist is right. It seems it is a common problem, the client just wants love, the therapist wants the client to grow. Recipe for possible disaster. But then so is the therapist who just gives the client that love.
That said, I still think he’s way too controlling.
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I feel like there can be a compromise there--some love, while also focusing on growing and helping the client to be independent. It doesn't have to be one or the other, which is what your T seems to think, Chihiro. And also what Dr. T seemed to think for a long time, but he's come around in some ways.