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Old Nov 08, 2020, 04:00 PM
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I am concerned that you are running over your history so much and consummed with grief that you are losing sight of the good you provided. That's taking too much responsiblity and your wife has her part in this as well. If you sink into too many negative emotions and run things over constantly, you will end up struggling with depression. You have VALUE as a person regardless of the choices your wife makes.