I think good therapy is an outcome of a good match. Someone could have a degree from the greatest universities of the world and still be a poor match for a number of people. It's not the credentials, not the expertise, but the therapeutic relationship that is the most important in my experience.

If T says you're one of the most therapy-resistant clients T's met, and yet it feels like T is disengaged when you're poking at the heart of the matter, this is something that could be rewarding to talk about with him.

I find it a bit discouraging to read that T would say of anyone that client is therapy-resistant. Therapy is a 2 person enterprise. It feels like T disclaims his responsibility at this point. You are definitely not therapy-resistant as a person. At worst, you resist therapy with him.