Thread: Why are codependency and trauma bond assumed within an abusive relationship?
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Old Nov 11, 2020, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Prycejosh1987 View Post
Sounds like you have problems with your loved ones. This is a big problem because the first people to support you are they. You have to move from your past to get to your happy future.
I am not sure where you are getting that from? Your post is totally irrelevant to the issue at hand, though well intended, I am sure.

This thread came from comments made on Facebook abuse groups where I am a member. People saying I am trauma bonded with my abusive husband and claiming I am codependent. I felt they were projecting their own issues onto me.
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