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Old Nov 11, 2020, 02:16 PM
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[QUOTE=Disney2019;6970908]Thank you, it really showed me how little he values me. He invited me to go with him. He knows perfectly well I am not on board with sitting there watching him dance with other random girls. He just didn’t give AF. I don’t care if I’m not dating a guy, if I invite him, my attention if on him and for the most part I’m dancing with him, and I sure as hell am not ditching him. Me and him just have different ideas with what respect is. Not expecting him to be up my *** the entire time, but he knows when we’re hanging I am with him the entire time. So bottom line, he can keep hanging with his boys and random people because I’m not going to ever again. There are plenty of guys who will give ME their total attention.[/QUOTE]

GOOD for you!!!! Stick to your guns.....

And yes, his notion is very far from your own view of respect. He couldn't give you the respect you need and desire.

So.... time to move on, onwards and forward march.

Always keep in mind what you expect AND deserve when it comes to relationships and respect. I am learning this one myself.

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Last edited by Have Hope; Nov 11, 2020 at 03:14 PM.