Dear T,
When you asked me if the increase in my drinking was around the time of D's diagnosis, you were holding your hand on the side of your head in a really odd position and kept it there during that part of the conversation. Perhaps you just had a headache, but I wonder if it was some sort of...almost protective or self-conscious body language related to the topic with my D?

Also, I'm very curious as to what was in those pictures and the painting behind you today. Was it obvious that I was distracted by them at first? I do wonder if that's your bedroom. The other times you were there, I couldn't see anything but closet doors in the background, so less to figure out. I almost want to ask for a warning when you send me the Zoom link if you'll be in a location other than your regular office. Would that be weird to ask for?


Love,
LT