It was just the bedside manner in general. She just seemed unprofessional for a doctor just a loud talker and very outgoing and I’m just not used to the doctors like that. I usually see doctors who are very friendly but in a quiet way and match how I am responding to them.

And yeah the whole “drama” comment was weird. While I don’t mind other people calling my mom out on it doctors just don’t seem like the right people to be calling it out. My mom and I were just confused about where she should wait. And she couldn’t wait outside the office because of Covid. So the doctor told her she’d get her. Then closed the door and said the comment to me.

My mom likes her though (I didn’t tell her about what the doc had said) because the doctor called back herself and asked questions about my medical history and asked about what I had and hadn’t had done and what should be done and she was very helpful with giving us info on how to get a surgery covered at the hospital that originally wasn’t going to be able to do it for ethically reasons.

So I guess I’ll stick with her but bedside manner is huge to me. But I look like a dude and I also need gynecological work done so I know I need to also be understanding that they may be kind of taken aback from me.