Geekgirl, when I read the words you write it strikes home to me so very much. You are right in that divorce is not the panacea that many people think that it will be. Certainly was the case for me. Admittedly I am probably more miserable now, for different reasons, that I was before I split. But, I have to keep reminding myself that things could of been worse if I had chosen to stay.

I can also relate to once being so goal oriented and now being "stuck". All I can say to that is that if you had that in you at one time, it is still there. It is just a matter of bringing it out once again. And, with time, I am sure you will.

I was glad to have been able to offer my perspective on your situation. Hang in there and keep on plugging!!!