“There is a reason you can’t be friends with exes.”

^I’ll also point out that the waters are muddy as to what you both think is the nature of this relationship. You obviously want him to be more than a friend by your feelings here and your actions with him show him that’s your feelings. His feelings for you are you are ‘just friends’, which to him means he is getting off on dangling you on a string. Don’t let him. He’s not your bf and he’s not your friend.

I used to have a best friend who was a gay male (I’m female). Even when he took me out to gay clubs, he always stayed and danced with me.