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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
This kind of individual is selfish and is using others for his own ego. This type simply doesn't care and it's best to learn about this type and just walk away. Nothing you can do will make him care either, his only true care is about himself.
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
“There is a reason you can’t be friends with exes.”
^I’ll also point out that the waters are muddy as to what you both think is the nature of this relationship. You obviously want him to be more than a friend by your feelings here and your actions with him show him that’s your feelings. His feelings for you are you are ‘just friends’, which to him means he is getting off on dangling you on a string. Don’t let him. He’s not your bf and he’s not your friend.
I used to have a best friend who was a gay male (I’m female). Even when he took me out to gay clubs, he always stayed and danced with me.
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This is exactly my point. He asked me to come, but then is hanging with his friends and dancing with his other female friends and not paying me any mind at all. If I wanted to go to a party and dance with people alone then I would have gone to one without him. I went with him to spend time with him. He just doesn’t get it. But I’m the selfish one for wanting his attention. I would have stayed home. I don’t appreciate being ignored or ditched. Plenty of guys would give me one on one attention and have the brains to know that’s the right thing to do. But he only cares about himself, except for when he gets something out of it.