Only one family member has told me they love me and that is my middle sister. We generally care about each other but the rest couldnt give a crap. They do what is best for them which seems good at first glance but its destructive in nature. My family do not care about me, and rarely contact me without me talking first. When it comes to birthdays family members wish me happy birthday, i have 5 siblings lots of cousins, etc. Imagine that only 2 people in my family and i grew up with them. Its a cold world my friend. They are all still in my prayers though.