This is exactly my point. He asked me to come, but then is hanging with his friends and dancing with his other female friends and not paying me any mind at all. If I wanted to go to a party and dance with people alone then I would have gone to one without him. I went with him to spend time with him. He just doesn’t get it. But I’m the selfish one for wanting his attention. I would have stayed home. I don’t appreciate being ignored or ditched. Plenty of guys would give me one on one attention and have the brains to know that’s the right thing to do. But he only cares about himself, except for when he gets something out of it.