(((((((((((((((((((( ev )))))))))))))))))))) it's great that you want to help your brother. may i ask his age?
my mentally ill brother has come to live with me twice. it was difficult, but he treated me and mine with respect...mainly because i think hubby demanded it
i hope alot for you all while he's there. will he be staying with you while he's trying to get things together for his own place, etc? sorry, i don't know much about the situation
best of luck to you and yours,