Do others have Ts with similar issues that they have shared or you were able to figure out?

Long term T said she never deal with trauma at least to her knowledge. However, she occasionally would say things about her mom that led me to believe she was verbally abusive and distant. She had an amazing dad but he died young. In the last few years T tried to make an effort to connect with her mom but her mom refused.

My dad abandoned me as a young teen but I also had trauma. My mom and I had a wonderful relationship but she died very young.

Current T attended counseling in college but has never said why. She has a close loving relationship with both her parents although her dad has had a drinking problem for many years.

I figured out on our second appointment she struggles from a lot of anxiety. Shr has never said it but it is quite obvious.