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Old Nov 14, 2020, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
Sorry but yes, sounds weird and alarms bells are ringing here.

There seems to be a major blurring of boundaries here. She would love to be your friend(?!)... has become attached to you... you are precious to her?! That is inappropriate i.e. could cause transference and lead to a slippery slope. And frankly, she seems rather insecure..

I agree with this assessment. Though if English isn't her first language, like Una said, that could partly explain it.

Also, was she just saying these things spontaneously? Or was she, say, replying to your asking a question, like, "Do I really mean something to you?"
Thanks for this!
East17, RoxanneToto