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Originally Posted by guy1111
It seems to be a common issue here on this forum. I suffer from it as well. A lot of us have issues that most people just don't know how to handle. It seems so normal to us because we grew up the way we are. It's hard for others to just sit and listen. I remember one time my wife even asked me to describe my abuse and I thought I was giving her pretty generic examples and about a minute in she said, "ok stop!"
The hard part is when people get upset with us. As if we are bad for having problems. They push us away and the cycle continues.
Come here and pour out your heart!! We can take it! We've heard the worst and we are not afraid to listen and try to help.
Take care! [emoji847]
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I really appreciate your comments. Your right, it's different when you live through things. I don't honestly remember a lot stuff I think is there , never mind talk to someone about it. I don't know, I'm not making any sense, your comment struck a nerve. I still have a hard time talking or writing about this stuff, I feel like I'm weak in some way and burdening others when everyone has stuff to deal with. It scares me, what maybe I don't know about myself. What I do know is bad enough! Anyway I'm rambling senseless while I'm trying to eloquently explain myself!