“Mom and dad, I decided to try living on my own, it’s a natural progression of things that kids move out. I’ll continue seeing you and talking often and I am forever grateful for everything you do for me. Me moving out is not anything against you. It’s just something people do. I got to the age when it’s normal to move out. I hope you support me in my decision to try more independence and in fact I need your moral support in this endeavor”