Actually, what also can happen with males is at the same time they can begin to want to compete with other males more and can feel some aggression and get confused by that as well. That's why some burn that up through getting involved with sports like basketball and especially wrestling or football. Something that allows for being competitive as that is also something that happens in nature as well. Some prefer brain competitions like playing chess or having inventing competitions or they get involved with cars or even school politics. Some are drawn to music and play instruments or even join drama club or something in the arts.

Nothing is really wrong with where one gravitates towards either, it's just a clue as to where you might do best.

Also Jock, in nature the male offspring of a female does not mate with the mother.