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Originally Posted by chihirochild
Actually had a good time on the date—nice guy, lots of shared interests, not a creep. I just don’t know about whether or not I could find him attractive, though... or whether or not that matters in the end.
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Glad you had fun! Maybe it will take a bit of time to determine the attraction thing. I think it does matter to some extent, but sometimes you can become more (or less) attracted to someone over time.
This is incredibly stereotypical in terms of gender, but it makes me think of this quote from one of my favorite movies, "sex, lies, and videotape":
Graham: "I remember reading somewhere that men learn to love the person that they're attracted to, and that women become more and more attracted to the person that they love."