An extremely famous person said forgive 70 x 7. I think that we should do this, as in have an open heart that is ready for good change, and works on it. We must also take things in and say what needs to be said. You said you love him so try relationship counselling, and agree to have him in your life on that promise. Its up to you, but if you love him fight for this relationship, if hes worth it of course.