You know what Trish, thinking about it he would do all kinds of mean things. It’s no reflection of me but rather of his bruised ego & self esteem. I would tell him a million times I would like to go with him to one of the events that his friend (he has connections) would invite him to. Never once did I get invited, and his friends would always ask if I went! I’m sure they found it strange. Then when he went he would post pictures/stories on social media telling his other friend (female) to stop by in the comments. Even went as far as to send me a picture and to brag about how fun it was. Who does this?? Then he would gaslight me like something was wrong with me. I always thought “well maybe I’m overreacting” or too pushy etc..but my gut feeling was right..it was mean and he knew I would react, but I think he did it to keep me hooked and obsessed.