And you wont get anything positive from him either. The best thing to do with this "I need to win control" type person is to let them think they won and walk away if all you are dealing with is "ego". You already discovered that anytime you experience him there is nothing there but HIS ego. This is an individual that likes to blow up like a balloon, likes to fill space with me, me, me. Look at all the attention I can get and how I can attract others. Yet, if you were to take a pin and pop that ego balloon? The reality is THERE IS NOTHING THERE.

This type of individual NEEDS an audience to fill the air into their ego balloon. You are just one, they need more than that and that's what he keeps showing you. They are so empty they can't happen without some kind of audience. That's what he displayed to you when he danced with other girls and kept checking to make sure you were watching.

What you have shared shows a pattern and this kind of person will display their pattern if you observe them. He navigates always needing to find an audience so he can inflate his ego. There is nothing there for you but HIS ego.