I do have a secure attachment style.

The first time I was aware of intimately knowing someone who didn't was with my husband. It took him a long time to trust my family and me. It was so strange to me because trust comes really easy for me and my family is the reason for that ability I guess. It was really confusing and frustrating for a long time.

Fortunately, I do think he finally got there. It took a while and some therapy along the way.