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Old Nov 17, 2020, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Disney2019 View Post
I agree. I made it worse by being too available to hang out. I have observed that he treats people differently who have a busy life, and aren’t too available
@Disney2019, if this is the same guy you recently posted about, it's time to seriously look at your own behaviors. Not to sound harsh or mean, but I'm going to present a bit of tough love. You separated from this man romantically, you've tried to do no contact, had trouble with it and then wanted to be friends with him, and then he proved himself to still treat you like crap. You spoke in another thread about always being the one to chase. There's something from this man that you seek, yet you're never going to get it from him.

Understand that from toxic people, attention, true love and respect will never be obtained. And he IS toxic. It's like trying to squeeze blood from a rock, over and over again, getting the same results.

Your best bet is to cut all ties with this man, and get yourself some therapy to figure out why you are chasing men who won't give you the time of day and who treat you with disrespect.

Do you not think highly enough of yourself that you don't believe you deserve true respect, common courtesy, human decency and honorable behavior and honorable intentions from men?

These are serious questions you need to ask yourself. And I say this with compassion, from having followed each of your threads about this same DUFUS.

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