It’s understandable to feel hurt when someone acts like they really care and then drops us. I call those people mixed up (at best), users, or intentionally malicious. I’m not comfortable with calling someone a narcissist when they did not share with us any diagnosis, nor do they have one. It bothers me to see it flung around in assumption.

Very greedy, malicious people crookedly did my family out of money. Messed up exes lured me into intimacy then dumped me.

All the comments on this thread about narcissistic behavior were excellently educating.