I am sure you have a lot of company with that sentiment Fuzzy. Perhaps it is more of expecting people to be able to give what you want from them. We are all flawed as human beings, we have our strengths and weakesses. And some people are predators too, they really don't care. What's important to you may not be important to someone else. People have different values, some expect others to have the same values, yet thats not being realistic.