Not literally or physically. Do I dare process what happened with ex-T with L? I've tried to keep her out of our relationship, but after I found a pm from someone here and I shared it with L, I feel like I already let her in. And I regret it. I feel like she's going to taint my relationship with L. She already took so much away from me and I've worked so hard trying to get it back. Bit her ghost rears her ugly head every once in awhile reminding me I'll never be free of her. I want L to know what I went through. Ex-T helped shaped who I am today. I think it would be helpful to L to know my past. But I'm so scared it will ruin my relationship with L.

Any thoughts?