Honestly, I do feel bad about the amount of time it has taken me. I say long term T for 10 years. We spent much of our time dealing with life stresses and but more importantly gradually tearing down the wall I had built up. She provided me the supportive compassion to tell somebody for the very first time my deep painful secrets. She was also there to support me for a year when I started seeing T2, something I never imagined I could do. I have been with T2 for 3 1/2 years. We are now processing the trauma. I aften feel upset that it has taken me 12 years at this point and no end in sight. I actually talked to her about this last week.