He knows what a date is. If he never took out you or other exes, not only is that bad on him, but it’s also bad on the women (maybe more so on women who allowed themselves to be treated like they mean nothing.

I had young men take me out, but then not get serious. They’d call again, but inconsistently. Just when I’d meet someone else that I might have clicked if given a chance, they’d show up again and turn my head around, only to distance again. It was the immaturity of a guy who didn’t want to commit (at least not to me). I moved on from that and met someone ‘ready’.

I hope this doesn’t come off too judgy— You made yourself too easy and available by hanging out at his house with no real dating. I hope you learn to not do that again with new men. Forget this guy, regardless. If the only men you are meeting do not ask you for an actual date, you are meeting men of a lifestyle that you should try to elevate yourself above. Look for better quality men. What can you be putting out that you are not attracting men who ask you for a real date?