I have been living with my Girl friend about 6 months. An issue has become something I cant ignore. I would like to go to bed together, she has a different idea. its not about sex, thats great. she just refuses to lay down! self induced sleep deprivation is clumsy, no focus , agitated , sometimes to the point of paranoia and delusions. 'why wont she sleep? it may be ocd related for she cleans excessively. help me talk her into a normal human sleep pattern, her health is failing. as well as mine.