It's weird because, in couples therapy there's such a push against "you" comments, because it's confrontational. I don't see the point in telling you you've misinterpreted something, when they could just rephrase if they need to get their point across! You could just counter "you're not making yourself clear" and then they've got themselves in an argument
I've got a lot to say to my therapist next session. I'm not sure at the minute, cause there's some stuff I feel I need to see a female therapist for (not being sexist, just is complicated). Just not sure at the minute