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Old Nov 21, 2020, 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted by herbal tea View Post
When the person you loved betrays you, it is a big tragedy
And I'm so sorry this happened to you.

I understand that you do not want to live without a family. But it seems to me that living with a person you don't want to live with for the rest of your life is also a bad idea.

Maybe it's better to leave your wife now. Because you will no longer have love and trust. But if you go, you will still have a chance to find a person who will love you and who will be faithful to you. All people deserve to be with people who value them.

I wouldn’t live without a family, all 4 of my kids rallied behind me when it came out (they are all adults or within a year of being).

I am not lacking love, but definitely trust. Finding a person who will love and be faithful to me seems very unlikely. I don’t see me ever giving anyone all of my heart or trust ever again. I don’t think any woman will ever want me anyways. I am in a wheelchair now from my spine injury, and also by me not having trust I don’t think any woman would want to deal with my insecurities. I’m not staying for those reasons, but I have already accepted them as truth.