Urgh that was just so unnecessarily abrupt and blunt of him. Weight is just one factor in bursitis. Many different factors contribute. And it hurts so bad - like toothache! No wonder you had a cry.

I hope you won't be annoyed at me when I say I admire your ability to let those tears roll. Really, so many times I have wished I could just cry and let it all out like you did. I think tears can be cathartic- at least I hope they have been for you.

Hope you are feeling a little better today.