That is so true about giving "it to God" or "leaving it in God's hands" does truly help through the painful experiences we have had. I also think it's our pride of always wanting to have control of our lives rather than someone/thing we can't see to have it that make us take our lives back into our own hands. It's still uneasy to associate God to religion and people associate God with taking their loved ones, or putting them in difficult situations. God is not of this earth, yet we are connected to him.... I could go on forever.