I wish my grandparents hadn’t harassed me over religion as a teenager. I was never interested and they tried (but failed) to make me feel like I was a criminal because of it. Also, my grandad made me feel humiliated on quite a few occasions, which amused him (of course, I was “over sensitive” because I didn’t like it).
Dad - you’re nasty minded and can be vindictive when you’re drunk, which is too much of the time. We shouldn’t have to worry about what’s going to happen, if you’re going to collapse on the floor or “lose” something when you’re out or home alone. You have more disasters (real and fabricated) than the Titanic would if it were sailing on Groundhog Day.